Question: I am OK with my wife having sex with other people. She is not OK with the reverse (other than maybe some limited touching), and I’m 100% fine with that. I understand that you generally hang out in the bar area and chat up other couples, but is it generally kosher to ask just the guy to come play with us, or is there an expectation that we play as a couple? I’m sure it varies by person, but I guess I’m asking if there are general lines of etiquette we shouldn’t cross?
Question: Any advice on what to bring and how to best prepare? Obviously, condoms, lube, lingerie, a change of clothes, and some water or something. Anything else?