Q and A: Sex Club Protection

What do I need to know about sexual protection?

Question: While I understand there’s a certain amount of risk involved in any kind of group play, what’s the standard here? Do you use condoms for everything, including oral? Dental dams? How does that work with group play, where you’re changing positions and partners frequently? Also my wife is allergic to latex condoms. Is everyone going to be find if we bring our own?

kink party

Friendly Atmosphere

“I liked the friendly atmosphere and being allowed to roam and look at new things!”

M. X.
Kink Party Tour Participant

Happy Anniversary

Today is my wedding anniversary! We’ve been together with my husband for 26 years now! Some of you may know that for the last 8-9 years, our relationship has been open, practicing consensual non monogamy (polyamory to be exact). I’ve even written a book on my poly adventures with al of juicy details and sensual photos lol! (www.aliceinpolyland.com)

It is incredible to see how relationships (and life in general) ebb and flow. They shapeshift, adjust, grow or fade depending on how intentional we are about them. How much energy, time, love, effort we’re willing to put in. How clear and open our communication is.

Alice in Polyland

Alice in Polyland – erotica

Please let me introduce myself. My name is Evguenia and I’m going to let you in on a little secret… Over the past few years I have written some spicy, sensual, deep, wild and soulful stories of my Alter Ego Alice and would love to share these with you! Alice is a mother and a polyamorous wife, an artist, and a healer. An entrepreneur. A sexuality educator. A lover. A seductress.

Partner Choice

Ideal Partner

Having been married for 26 years and dating for last 8 (open relationship) I have gone through a lot of fun dating experiences (P. S. want to read about my sexiest dates? get my book at https://www.aliceinpolyland.com) and developed a powerful approach to finding wonderful matches (and let me tell you The Mystery Man rocks!)!

Doubt

Doubt all things – personal journey

When I was first embarking on the personal development journey, I remember a wise person telling me  that we go through three stages in life:

Growing up we accept and learn from those who surround us about life’s principles, values, norms and expectations; we adapt their belief systems

Later in life we realize that there are different ways of looking at the same subject, multiple belief systems and truths among people

Finally we arrive at peeling off all of the layers and questioning them with scrutiny – deciding for ourselves which beliefs we want to keep and which ones are not serving us any longer

Dating Guidance

Dating Guidance & Resources

Dating guidance + Resources

Dating experience can get pretty challenging and emotionally draining. Ghosting, connecting with unsuitable people, ruined expectations and superficiality of online dating are only some of the issues one may encounter while trying to look for a partner. Additionally, looking through the right channels aids at much better chances of finding the best suitable person in a shorter amount of time.

Alice in Polyland

Read Alice in Polyland – Erotica

Hi Lovely! Have you ever felt restricted or repressed in fully expressing who you are deep down inside at your very core? Perhaps, you’ve come from a conservative background where any expression of sexuality has been forbidden. Maybe, you’ve been in a long term relationship and have lost the fire within. Possibly, you’re on a journey of bringing more passion into your life and redefining yourself.

Purple Light

Purple light district

Purple light district (more polyamory related, erotic stories can be found at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

He was a tech guru. Incredibly smart, unique, tall, handsome. Though he didn’t really believe the latter. His last relationship left him questioning his self confidence.

“Do you know why the Red Light District in Amsterdam has that name?”, asked Valen over one of their casual online chats. “I’m not sure, babe, why?” “The sex workers turn on the red lights to attract their customers… I will turn my lights purple whenever I’m in the mood.” he texted