Having been married for 26 years and dating for last 8 (open relationship) I have gone through a lot of fun dating experiences (P. S. want to read about my sexiest dates? get my book at https://www.aliceinpolyland.com) and developed a powerful approach to finding wonderful matches (and let me tell you The Mystery Man rocks!)!
Are you looking for a wonderful partner and are unable to find them? I can help with finding an incredible open-minded and hearted person for you! I have introduced quite a few couples that are happily involved in long term relationships, I’m guiding multiple clients on their dating journey!
Today I want to share with you a few important questions you may want to ask yourself about a potential partner to have better clarity as to who you are looking for:
- Physical (height, body type, any other preferred visual qualities)
- Emotional (self-awareness, balance, attachment style, compassion, love language etc.)
- Intellectual (intelligence, level of education, knowledge coverage)
- Spiritual (spiritual / religious / atheist preferences)
- Career (career level, field of expertise etc.)
- Sexuality (sensual, sexual, open-minded, kinky, spiritually open etc.)
- Relationship type (monogamous, monogamish, play partners, swingers, open relationship, polyamory)
- Belief system / qualities the partner values (honesty, freedom, love, communication, friendships, loyalty etc.)
- Hobbies / interests
- How I want to feel with this person (valued, attended to, loved, accepted etc.)
- How would I treat this person (your characteristics, behaviors)
- My goals for this relationship (5 years, 10 years)
- Who do I need to be to attract the person above (how will I practice becoming that person)
- Anything else you’d like to write down to describe the future partner
Do you have questions about this list and would like to learn more about dating guidance I offer? Please reach out for a free 20 minute consultation: https://spiritsexlab.com/contact
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