Send me your fantasies contest

“What is your deepest, darkest, most intimate fantasy?” I ask in a low, slow voice looking seductively into your eyes. We don’t openly talk about sex. We feel shame, guilt, fear around our sexuality and fantasies. If we shed some light onto this darkness – incredible sense of pleasure, freedom and joy appear. Trust me, I’ve been there and feel so much more alive. Share your fantasies with me. Together, let’s shine a bit of light into the darkness of your soul.

Alice in polyland erotica

Alice in Polyland book is excellent

“Alice in Polyland book is excellent. Let me know when your next comes out. I definitely find myself wanting to read more. Your lack of inhibitions and sexual freedom is very refreshing. I appreciate all your insights from your experiences.”

E. K.
Alice in Polyland book reader

Best Fantasies

Questions to ask lovers to best understand fantasies

Questions to ask your lover to better understand their fantasies.

I hear from so many of you that talking about sex may feel difficult and intimidating. I notice how liberating and free my clients feel when we dive into their fantasies, sexual preferences without experiencing judgments, shame or guilt. Below are a few ideas on which questions to ask to get to know your partner’s fantasies a bit better. When this conversation is approached with an open mind in a judgement free space, results are miraculous.

Desire Boost and Sensual Meditation: M4 Cooperation Webinar Aftermath

Desire Boost and Sensual Meditation: M4 Cooperation

My heart is full. Thank you! 86 people registered for our Desire Boost and Sensual Meditation webinar last night.

Thank you so much to @Clubm4 for making this possible and to the wonderful and so open-minded community of people who’ve joined. We’ve laughed together, shared resources on staying sexy, connected and grounded. I’ve read spicy stories and shared multple sensual tips on keeping the desire going in the times of Covid-19. We’ve enjoyed sensual meditation together.

Thank you for following along!

THANK YOU SO MUCH for following along! We hit 1,600 followers on IG, 2,100 on YouTube and FB needs to catch up lol (@Spiritsexlab) and I’m very happy to see you here!

Without you, there would be no blog. No sharing space to openly discuss Sexuality, Spirituality, Personal Growth and Pleasure. ❤️

Let me introduce myself. I always offer to play a little game when I meet more of you! I’ll give you 3 truths and 1 lie about me. Please guess which one is the latter (1-4). Please also comment to introduce yourself – would love to know who you are and where you’re from!

Coping with Pandemic – Desire Boost and Spicy Meditation Aftermath

Thanks to everyone who was able to join the Desire Boost and Spicy Meditation

So wonderful to connect with everyone on the call! We’ve shared some of our struggles, learned a few tips on staying connected to our own sexuality and fun ways to spice things up with our partners in person and long distance. I really appreciate everyone’s beautiful heartfelt sharing! 

March newsletter

Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – March 2020

Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – March 2020

Hot off the virtual press – have you seen today’s newsletter yet? Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related

Webinar: Female Pleasure + Orgasms – Aftermath

Webinar: Female Pleasure + Orgasms – Aftermath

Thank you so much for everyone who joined our Female Pleasure 4 Types of Orgasms webinar yesterday!

We had a blast going through anatomy and physiology, pleasure techniques, sharing funny sexy stories and watching really explicit videos…
Want to get your hand on the recording and resources? Please DM, it’s only $35 for 1.5h of life long pleasure!!

Spice Up Relationships

10 ways to spice up relationships

Share fantasies with no judgement (even if you’re not sharing your partner’s enthusiasm about having a threesome, be open to listen and see how you can creatively aid at bringing it to life (dirty talk, fantasy, flirting etc.))
Dirty talk and sext – so much fun, isn’t it! (especially if photos don’t end up in dance mom’s forum by mistake yikes)
Come out to a sexy party (sex clubs, kink parties – ping me for a guided tour offer)
Take a spicy workshop together (so many fun things you could learn together or separately!! I’m offering two this weekend!)

Newsletter

Spirit Sex Lab Newsletter – February ’20

Hot off the virtual press – have you seen today’s newsletter yet? Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related. Imagine my account would get blocked and you’d never hear from me again  I’d miss you terribly!