expect nothing

Expect nothing

“It is important to expect nothing, to take every experience, including the negative ones, as merely steps on the path, and to proceed.”
Ram Dass

Purple Light

Purple light district

Purple light district (more polyamory related, erotic stories can be found at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

He was a tech guru. Incredibly smart, unique, tall, handsome. Though he didn’t really believe the latter. His last relationship left him questioning his self confidence.

“Do you know why the Red Light District in Amsterdam has that name?”, asked Valen over one of their casual online chats. “I’m not sure, babe, why?” “The sex workers turn on the red lights to attract their customers… I will turn my lights purple whenever I’m in the mood.” he texted

Energy Orgasm

Eye-opening experience

I’m really enjoying facilitating these mind blowing, life changing experiences for clients and teaching a practitioner certification course to wonderful students! Ever since I’ve experienced my very first energy orgasm, I couldn’t wait to share it with the world and spread joy, pleasure, sensuality and freedom of completely embracing our authentic selves mind, heart, body and soul!! Such a bliss. DM to learn more or join my free webinar on Energy Orgasms in June: www.spiritsexlab.com/events

Self Esteem

Self-esteem and self-love work; discovering essence

SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-LOVE WORK; DISCOVERING ESSENCE

So many of us are quite self critical, unsure of how to love ourselves unconditionally and are lucking self confidence. I’ve been there myself multiple times – feeling ashamed of my own desires, thoughts and needs. Unable to look at myself in the mirror without criticizing the way I looked. Getting easily upset with my own emotional reactions and “sensitivities”.  

The good news is, that Neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to change itself constantly by creating new neural pathways and losing those which are no longer used) allows us to change negative patterns of thinking into the positive ones.

worth

Busy holding onto your unworthiness.

“Your problem is you’re… too busy holding onto your unworthiness.”
Ram Dass

Yes. There’s a personal story connected to this saying. One day at a rock climbing gym as I was reaching the top of the tall climbing wall I had a moment of intense fear. “You can’t do it”, – the fear said to me “this is unsafe, you will fall down, you’re just not strong enough”. It was a momentary uncomfortable experience, fear gripping my whole body and thoughts racing in my head. I looked down and saw my partner belaying me (essentially I was being held by a strong rope and so no matter what would happen, the worst outcome would’ve been me just dangling a bit in the air until I grabbed onto a stone again). I took a deep breath and looked up and noticed that I only had 3 more stones to go, I knew I was physically strong enough to proceed. And then it hit me “I was the one stopping myself. Always”.

parallel universe

Parallel Universe – Erotica

Parallel Universe – Erotica (Read more stories and get my book at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

“Multiverse theorists argue that the continuous expansion of the universe has produced various pockets of energy that ended up expanding at a much faster rate and created several other pocket universes of their own.”

Feeling the rope surround and caress her body, listening to the sounds of binaural beat patterns, Alice was floating in and out of consciousness… Into a state of trans. Lightness. Energy. Peculiar visions, woven together as a bouquet of sensations and memories surrounded her…

Alice in Polyland Collective

Spirit Sex Lab Featured by The Collective Women’s Entrepreneur Community

Spirit Sex Lab Featured by The Collective Women’s Entrepreneur Community

Thank you so much for featuring me!

Q. Let’s take it back to the beginning: can you tell us the story of your business’s first month?

A. When I came up with the idea of Spirit Sex Lab I was longing to create a judgement-free, holistic-oriented space that allowed professionals to break down the barriers inside and rediscover amazing passion, pleasure, and ultimate joy of embracing their full selves.

Identifying Needs

IDENTIFYING NEEDS + REDEFINING ONESELF

IDENTIFYING NEEDS + REDEFINING ONESELF (SEXUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY), SETTING AND MANIFESTING INTENTIONS  

Once, someone very wise has mentioned to me that while growing up we go through three stages of understanding ourselves and the world around us:

Learning what our parents and society believe we should be like and the societal norms we need to follow
Realizing that not everyone follows the same principles in life
Redefining for ourselves what our needs, values and belief systems are

Black out Tuesday

Today, June 2nd, Spirit Sex Lab will observe “Black Out Tuesday”

I will be using this day to reflect on what SSL as a company can do to put action towards change and make changes in the coming weeks / months.

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