Tag: couples

Doubt

Doubt all things – personal journey

When I was first embarking on the personal development journey, I remember a wise person telling me  that we go through three stages in life:

Growing up we accept and learn from those who surround us about life’s principles, values, norms and expectations; we adapt their belief systems

Later in life we realize that there are different ways of looking at the same subject, multiple belief systems and truths among people

Finally we arrive at peeling off all of the layers and questioning them with scrutiny – deciding for ourselves which beliefs we want to keep and which ones are not serving us any longer

shame

On shame

The most important work I do is centered around shame.

As probably many of you know I come from a very conservative upbringing and the feelings of shame, guilt and judgement around sexuality accompanied me throughout my teen and late into my 20s. I had to dig deep, shine some light into these shadows and question / release any beliefs that were not serving me prior to allowing myself to feel free and aligned with my sexual force inside.

Open, accepting and loving

Accepting, warm and loving

Thank you so much! So blessed to be able to connect with such open-hearted and minded people! Want to experience working with me and experience more openness, pleasure, let go of what is not serving you and align with your authentic self? Contact for a free 20 minute consultation: https://spiritsexlab.com/contact!

Can’t wait to speak with you.

Client testimonial

Personal Transformation: Meet my wonderful client B.

Meet my incredible personal transformation client B., she’s a successful entrepreneur from Canada. B. and I have been exploring Personal Transformation, Relationships, Sexual Guidance and Self Confidence

Here’s what she had to say about her experience working with me:

“I came across SpiritSexLab in Instagram, and don’t really recall what algorithms and clicks brought me to her page but I am so happy I landed there. 

love

Love play

Sublime indeed! I love hanging out in the unconditional love frequency, it feels like an unending love exchange… Healing and guidance work are largely done in this realm. Challenging a ton of love for my clients, guiding them to love themselves even more – this work is so transformational!

excellence

We are what we repeatedly do

Surrounding ourselves with wonderful people, doing the things we love, growing in the direction of our dreams allows us to excel 😉

Bondage

Predicament bondage – Play Ideas

Predicament bondage

Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.

Women love themselves

Women who love themselves

Just today I was holding space for a beautiful client of mine who’s come to me to embrace her sexual force, to fall in love with herself and unleash the inner goddess.

The sensual energy is so powerful, exquisite and incredibly moving. It makes us feel alive, creative, invigorated and empowered. Often, the reason why we’re not in touch with our pleasure is due to a variety of blockages that come from your upbringing – early childhood wounding, shame / guilt associated with sexuality, feeling unworthy of love and pleasure, inability to fully accept and love ourselves as we are and not as the world wants us to be.

Transition into Play

Transition into Play

From Mental to Playful Transitions

We all tend to be busy and often quite preoccupied during the day – work, errands, kids, parents – out day to day lives have a certain busy stress-filled rhythm. What does it take to transition into a slowed down, experiential, playful, sensual, sexual, creative and connective space with our lovers?