permanent = lifeless

Lifeless

“The more a thing tends to be permanent, the ore it tends to be lifeless.”

Alan Watts

Have you noticed this? It is so interesting… As Esther Perel says – humans beings have two opposing needs:

First need is for security and safety, consistency and predictability
Second, and quite the opposite – for novelty, excitement and unpredictability

Deepen Relationships

10 ways to deepen a connection / relationship

10 ways to deepen a connection / relationship

Do you ever feel disconnected from your partner? Do you notice that the depth of your contact is sometimes lacking? We’ve all been there – when sparks initially fly and we invest a lot of energy into building the connection; then the daily tasks and responsibilities take over… And our connection starts to suffer.

Would you like to build a deeper bond, feel more in touch and open up to more intimacy and vulnerability? Below are 10 steps I suggest taking in order to deepen your emotional connection with a partner. This an be practiced with kids, friends and ourselves.

Spirit Sex Lab Newsletter – December ’19

Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – December, 2019

Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related.
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Lost and Found

Lost and Found (A New Chapter)

Lost and Found (A New Chapter)

Alice felt LOST.

This dense low vibrating energy that existed as an inner darkness right smack the middle of her chest and radiated all the way out into the world felt frightening, lonely and overwhelming. What was worse is a complete sense of identity loss. Disconnect not only from the world and others but also herself.

She could understand the grief that came along with the end of her long-term relationship. Alice was still trying to paste together multiple puzzle pieces and intense experiences of the last three and a half years: huge tidal waves ranging from blissful, spicy, loving and profound highs, to painful, excruciating, and insulting lows…

Kink party 16

Kink 101 Workshop and Guided Tour – Aftermath

Kink 101 Workshop and Guided Tour – Aftermath

WHAT A BLAST! Thanks co much to our incredible kink tour participants and a beautiful model! The dungeon looked gorgeous in all of it’s glory with multiple fantasy rooms. Everyone felt comfortable, safe and playful ? We had a wonderful hilarious scene with our beautiful cat model. The setting took place in a vet office and we examined her in detail from head to toe! Making sure all of her cat parts worked perfectly. Spanking, tickling and electric therapies have been administered to make sure she was in the best possible standing. At the end her tummy got brushed and a mouse was given as a prize ? Pet play is so much fun!

Newsletter November 19

Spirit Sex Lab Newsletter – November ’19

Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – November, 2019

Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related.
Imagine my account would get blocked and you’d never hear from me again  I’d miss you terribly!

incredible facilitator

Incredible Fascilitator

“People said they loved the workshop and thoughts you were an incredible facilitator. It was excellent as always.”

Wonderful Guide

“You’ve been a wonderful guide to various people that I know, including close friends. As someone who has been a part of the lifestyle for many years, I thank you. xoxo”
Alex Dark

Thank you so much Alex! BTW Alex will share his knowledge and passion for impact play at a Discipline Me station at August 17th party!! Can’t wait.

Through the Looking Glass

What an incredible line up of events for the party! Sensuality takes so many different forms! There’s the role play / kink / BDSM spectrum that one can explore (we will have multiple experiential stations and shows form this realm), there’s ability to connect with multiple people that can bring on much joy as well as spiritual / mindful sensuality one can launch into. We will have demos and workshops on this as well. Sky is the limit. What’s your favorite mix?

Safe, comfortable, relaxed

Safe, comfortable, relaxed place

“A perfectly safe, comfortable, relaxed place to open up, ask, discuss, air, learn, change. I wish I met you earlier.”
Y. S.