norms

Deviation from the norm

deviate from the norm.

And what is norm anyways? If we’re all so unique, could there really be a set of perfectly outlined, agreed upon norms? Or is it more like a spectrum? I love guidelines that are used in kink play: CSS: Consensual, Safe and Sane. I believe as long as three of these parameters are met, anything we feel or do is OK. Thoughts?

Alice in Polyland

Alice in Polyland – Personal Journey

Want to know what drives me to write this blog, why I’m in the Healing & Sexuality field and published Alice in PolyLand Erotic book? Please read on and watch my video on it!
Please like, share and tag your friends to help me spread joy and pleasure!

Write life with action

Write your life with actions

Just now I’ve read about Nicholas Winton – man who saved 669 Jewish kids during the second world war and kept quiet about it for 50 years until his wife discovered his notes. Incredible! And then I thought to myself – what an amazing way to write his life with actions and contribute… Going to sit with this for a while and see how I’m contributing.

Partner Choice

Ideal Partner

Having been married for 26 years and dating for last 8 (open relationship) I have gone through a lot of fun dating experiences (P. S. want to read about my sexiest dates? get my book at https://www.aliceinpolyland.com) and developed a powerful approach to finding wonderful matches (and let me tell you The Mystery Man rocks!)!

Letter hunt game

Scavenger Hunt Letters

The time has come for me to tell you all about a game I recently played with the Mystery Man: Letters Scavenger Hunt

This is a great idea to do if you’d like spice things up, add mystery, excitement and playfulness into your connection; as one of our core needs according to Esther Perel is to experience excitement / unpredictability and mystery! Please save this, like, tag and share with others.

Prepare a 5-6 letters, these could be organized and numbered according to a sequence in which you’d like your partner to find these or may just be scattered around the house:

First letter may be placed on a bed side table / underneath a pillow or given in person so that it’s easily found
The rest of the letters can be hidden around a house with hints on where to find them included in each of the letters or marked by visual identifiers (flowers) for better visual clues

November newsletter

Spirit Sex Lab Newsletter – November

Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – November 2020

Just sent off a freshly squeezed newsletter, in it you can find:

Watch Stuart react to an Energy Orgasm in disbelief
Meet my wonderful client Shay, LinkedIn influencer and video coach extraordinaire from Miami
Meet my incredible personal transformation client Stuart, a former criminal lawyer from TO  
Exclusive Energy Orgasm Foundations Webinar (December 3, 7pm)

understand their nature

I can understand their nature

Awareness and understanding of our passions and motions are so important. What drives us, what do we need and how do we live intentionally authentically while being aligned with who we are deep down inside? Personal Development guidance is available here:https://spiritsexlab.com/contact/ Lets’ focus on what matters the most.

Energy Orgasm

October 22, 7pm – FREE Energy Orgasm Foundations Webinar

Join me for this monthly FREE Energy Orgasm Foundations Webinar on October 22 at 7pm! Are you curious what touch free Energy Orgasms are? Join this free webinar to learn about this profound, pleasure-filled, multidimensional phenomenon called Energy Orgasms. Can’t make it? Register and get a recording copy.

bodoiur photos

Incredible date idea: Boudoir photo session

You’ve asked for these photos – here’s one sexy image of yours truly (more to come soon)! Please like and comment if you think taking sensual photo shoots is a great idea! As some of you may know, I had just recently had an amazing experience with Larysa from Desire Photography Boutique shooting sensual art by myself and with my partner.